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Each January, social impact organizations like Big Brothers Big Sisters of Canada celebrate the work of volunteer mentors who show up and give their time so that a young person can feel seen, included, and supported.

At its core, the Big Brothers Big Sisters programs ensure that a young person who faces adversity and needs an additional consistent and supportive developmental relationship, can access one. Over time, the young person (“Little”) and the mentor (“Big”) navigate life’s highs and lows, together. The mentor teaches the mentee to express care and challenges their young mentee’s growth. The mentor provides support, shares power, and expands possibilities for their mentee. The mutual benefits of such an intentional relationship are profound and can grow to last a lifetime. When a young person graduates a Big Brothers Big Sisters mentoring program, it is not unusual for them to be connected as adults, years after their first connection.

In Canada, over 18,000 trained adult volunteers mentored more than 33,000 young people. Their stories are as unique as each person. Frank and Peter’s story spanned more than four decades. That’s the power of mentorship.

Photo of Frank age 5 with his late sister Sandy
Frank age 5, pictured right, with his late sister Sandy

Frank age 5, pictured right, with his late sister Sandy

Frank and Peter: A Consistent Lifeline

Frank met his Big Brother, Peter, in 1979. He was 10 years old. Scared, displaced, and living in constant chaos.

Peter didn’t just change Frank’s life. He saved it.

When Frank was abandoned in a basement apartment and forced to work in a mushroom factory at age 12, Peter showed up. When Frank was sent to a group home, Peter found him. When Frank had no place to call home, Peter gave him one. When Frank had no hope, Peter reminded him of what it felt like to be human again.

Over the years, Peter became more than a mentor. He became a lifeline. Through every loss, every restart, every rite of passage, Peter stayed.

He wasn’t a father. He wasn’t blood. But he was the consistent presence that helped Frank build a life: a marriage, a child, a business, a sense of self. And now, after 45 years of showing up, Peter is gone. The pair got to express gratitude and say their goodbyes.

Frank reflects on Peter’s memory because he wants people to understand that Big Brothers Big Sisters isn’t just a program. It’s not just about volunteering. It’s about being the difference between despair and possibility. Between being lost and finding a future.

And sometimes, it’s the only thing that keeps a kid alive.

If you’ve ever doubted how much one person can change a life, just think about Frank and Peter’s story.
And if you’re ready to be that person, connect with your local Big Brothers Big Sisters agency today.